Book Reviews
A good read for all music lovers, 17 Mar 2008| By | Pete “Essex Soulboy” (Essex UK) – See all my reviews |
We as a community tend to forget that this music stems from a world vastly different to that of ours. The experiences of African Americans in the rural Southern states of the USA and the factories and ghettoes of Detroit back in the 60′s just cannot be related to working class Britons however much we may kid ourselves that they can, but nowadays we see it as `our’ music and want to exclude anything which doesn’t fit into our own narrow concept of soul. It can never be our music, we only borrow it from all those great artistes who put that feeling into their music and turn it into true soul. The great strength of this book is that Reg actually understands this, and he honestly admits that he enjoys soul across the board regardless of whatever little labels we as a fraternity love to put on this music. He hasn’t claimed anywhere that it’s a book about Northern soul, modern soul, crossover soul, jazzfunk or any other of those pedantic pigeon holes so beloved of the typical UK soul fan. It’s simply a book about Reg’s personal `Search For Soul’, and if you approach it with a degree of open-mindedness I’m sure you will appreciate it.
`Searching For Soul’ is written in a refreshingly down to earth style which really does add to its entertainment value, avoiding all of the literary clichés which would have been evident had a ghost writer been employed to do the job. It’s a book from the heart by a passionate fan who knows his subject intimately, and as such I would have no hesitation in recommending it to any true music lover regardless of the genre you like – you will identify with much of what’s in these pages anyway.
There’s a great quote credited to the late James Brown which goes something like `Soul music….if I have to explain it to you then you wouldn’t understand’. Hopefully this book will help you to understand us `soulies’ a little better.
Enjoy!!
Love(ly) Feeling, 18 Mar 2008| By | Mrs. D. Clarke “Dee” (Cyprus) – See all my reviews |
As a Northern Soul fan from the 70′s it was great to re-live the memories that are so wonderfully described by Reg, an ordinary man with an extraordinary passion for the music. It is a little gem, this book. His recollections not only about the music, but the venues and the fashions of the time are so vivid and detailed that it enabled me to experience that `feel good factor’ I had all those years ago. Any true Northern Soul fan’s heart will rejoice with him by reading and sharing his particular story and can reflect upon their own past experiences.
I was once told `you can never go back’. Although we all know we can never return to those halcyon days, Reg will tell you it is still possible to follow your love of this music in the modern era and that many still do. Perhaps there’s hope for me yet….
Soul Good, 6 Aug 2008| By | Caz – See all my reviews |
Reading Reg’s story of a soulful life, and all it’s personal & music filled glory is a happy experience. An easy to understand tale of growing up in the south of England, with it’s many trips up north purely for the music, and people around the music. You are always wondering what will happen in this book, so much so that you will find it hard to put down once you have started. Do not expect a full on ‘records only’ type of reference book, no this is the tale of growing up from a boy to a man while enjoying two of England’s best music happenings, northern soul & caisters/jazzfunk. All the personal memories of people, places & conversations are what this book is about, and by the end you can feel like you know some of Reg’s friends personally yourself! You might recognise similar story’s to some in your own life, and this is what makes you keep on reading this book, as it’s more than just Reg’s life, it’s everybody’s life. And as the man says “You get out of life, what you put in.” Truly Inspiring, cheers Reg!!
Heart Warming Memoirs, 1 Oct 2008 There are people that some of the time view life through rose tinted glasses. Our dear Reg Stickings appears to live his whole life in a rose tinted bubble.
Now, this is in no way an insult; many people on the soul scene could do with living their lives in the same way Reg does. I was heart-warmingly stunned by his generous nature, his multitude of friends and his passion for the music he adores.
Like many he started out absorbing the great sound of Northern Soul back in the early 70′s and meandered across the line into the Jazz Funk scene and back again to his beloved Soul.
His book oozes positivity. I can liken him to a jam doughnut! A gooey sickly sweet centred man who leaves sugar on your lips that you just can’t help but lick off before taking another bite!
Not a man to hide his emotions and one who proudly shouts to the world about records some collectors and soul fans joyfully take the piss out of. To Reg, each and every record he owns is another pearl in his big oyster.
We’re taken through sometimes turbulent periods in his life spanning from a young school boy to the well rounded man of substance he is today.
A lot of what he wrote, I saw in myself. From the brushing off of other peoples perception about what clothes you should wear to the out and out excitement of attending his next soul night.
His enthusiasm is boundless and unhindered by egotism – how refreshing! I particularly loved his remark about champagne lifestyles with lemonade pockets. That really sums up my own predicament really and it made me smile. In fact, much of the book made me smile.
He describes his visits to a number of ‘clubs’ over 30 years ago and more, with a vividness not many of us at our age are capable of memory wise, and I’m sure this will help others conjure up their own personal memories and bring smiles to their faces and conversations in the future. Reading between the lines (although this isn’t necessary for the most part because he’s so open) I wallowed in his pride for being part of our wonderful soul scene and indeed for the lifelong friendships he’s made along the way.
I can’t imagine, in a million years, that anyone could say anything remotely negative about Reg Stickings. Even when I phoned him to place an order he was so adorable. He also took the trouble to call me a few days later to confirm that I’d received my package! Caring seems to be Reg’s middle name and he should take pride in that.
This book may not win any literary prizes but in my eyes he’s done something very special of which he should be very proud indeed.
I’ve not met Reg myself but I sure hope I do soon!
Great read, 20 May 2008| By | Graham Martin “The Hat” (Faversham, Kent UK) – See all my reviews |
Graham “The Hat” Martin – DJ
PS Would have given it 4.9 but Amazon don’t let you do that – 5′s are reserved for JRR Tolkien
A Story of a Love for Soul – So Real You Can Belive You Where There – Well Done to Reg Stickings., 25 Jun 2008| By | Mrs. E. Sibley “Elaine Sibley” (Scotland – UK) – See all my reviews |
I found this book an amazing read. I almost felt I was being taken by the hand to a place where we can all say we wanted to be, it’s like when you hear of the stories of love, pain and laughter that people tell and you feel you wish you had been a part of it. Reg has a heartfelt way of sharing his passion for the sounds of soul that so many of us can relate to. We are also taken on a journey of dreams and determination. As I read ‘Searching for Soul’ I found myself back in a time when music was important to so many of us. I couldn’t help but smile as I read through the list of sounds that had slipped my mind, thinking wow I remember that brilliant sound. It made me take out my old records dust them off and chill while I listened. Thank you for sharing your life of music so far……I say so far because I hope there will be more to come. I had tears of sadness and felt the loss of loved ones too. You know you made me think how lucky we all are we could follow the love for music so much easier than some can today…….I guess we have computers and mobiles to thank for that! I take my hat off to Reg he let me in on an experience that I had never been on. Although I was in my teens in the 70s and loved music. I never went to Wigan or the wonderful places the story takes us through but I feel that I have been there, even smelt the blood sweat and tears and felt that talc on the bouncing floor….through the eyes of a person who has such a passion for his music which he can relate to chapters of his life like I do with a photo album. Thank you for sharing your story told with good honest passion.
One more thing to add you are an encouragement to everyone who has ever been told, and people yet to be told, that they will not do well by our wonderful education system! For someone who can openly admit that reading and writing have been a struggle and to go on and achieve this book you are truly AMAZING – well done.
A brilliant read that I couldn’t put down – Thanks for the tears, love and laughter.
Elaine – John’O'Groats – Scotland – If you have not read this yet – go on treat yourself
January 4th, 2009 at 7:03 pm
Really enjoyed the book, and not just because I got a mention. You haven’t changed in the too many years to mention I’ve known you, and I for one hope you never do. Here’s to many more soul nights/weekenders, as it makes our world go round. Love always D x
January 7th, 2009 at 6:26 pm
Absoulute belter of a book!
I Must say I’m privileged to know Little Reg for a few years now and the book relates so much on what we all have done or are doing in the Soul scene. I’m sure there’s a bit for everyone to relate to in this book (even if not a soul fan) and it’s an honest look on life and experiences. It has it all with mostly up’s but also the down’s we inevitably get thru the rich tapestry of life. A Book that “say’s it as it is” .
Boy I would have loved to have been a few years older so I could’ve shared in the trips to Wigan,Highland rooms,Catacombes and many more being a fellow Treacle Bumstonian !
I sat and had a chat to Reg before Xmas and he played the Infamous Dena Barnes track presented for his Birthday treat (many moons ago ) . Top marks to the lads who chipped in.
Many ‘choones’ that he has quoted in this book are my fav’s too. Just a book that warms you and makes you feel good. A Great outlook on life and passion which most of us feel about music whether it be Soul or another.
Also it is inspiration to others who have to overcome some of life’s problems and have a positive attitude on life.
Thanks reg for a Triffic book and a great look on life.
Just buy it as everyone can relate to this book,
Cheers,
Marcus ‘Sofa Soul’ Bell
January 27th, 2009 at 1:46 pm
What a great book i have read this book oh got to be getting on for 6 times now
I met him in Luton I must say what a honest and well liked bloke he is if you are reading this and still not read the mans book well get your ass in gear and get yourself a copy you will love it like the rest of us do dont just take my word for it ………..
it is brilliant book about his life and about the brilliant music we all love and still love and the brilliant 70′s them year the days I cant say a bad word about it tell a lie he does go on a little about being a Liverpool fan I am from wolverhampton and a wolves fan
get a copy now
well thanks REG for a brill read jut wished i owned you vinyl collection
John Fewtrell from wolverhampton now living in Luton
KEEP THE FAITH
February 20th, 2009 at 6:35 pm
I read this book in one night, couldn’t put it down! Really strange reading a book with your friends actually appearing in it plus reading about the music of your life. People talk of writing a book about the Soul scene but no one has actually covered it with such love, until Reg wrote this. A couple of my non soulie friends have also read it and they absolutely loved it! They said that they felt that they knew Reg and could see where I get my passion for the music.
Well done mate! Love you lots.
Annie x
May 23rd, 2009 at 1:33 pm
Absolutely fantastic book. I couldn’t put it down and begrudged the phone ringing, the dog wanting to go for a walk and the kids & other ‘arf for pestering me! It’s a real book by a real person about real people and places. Thank you Reg for sharing this with us. You really are soul brother numero uno.
love Sarah x
May 27th, 2009 at 7:48 pm
I got your book at Caister…. (feels to long ago!!) it has has taken me back to the ‘talc’ days when all we had to worry about was how high our waistbands were and the beer towel in the pocket. You have made me live all my youth over again and it felt just great. Us Bedford girls couldnt get enough of all the ‘spinning and turning’ The passion a Soulie feels never dies
Keep the faith Reg
love
Helen x
August 11th, 2009 at 9:22 pm
Hi Reg ..well where do i start ..first its been great meeting you ..your are a little diamond and I feel truely blessed to know you and honoured to have read your book and feel like I have known you for years in fact it was only a few months a go I finaly got to meet you at the one and only Treacle Soul in Hemel Hempstead.
As you know we all have our cross to bear in life It has been an inspiration to read your life story and how you have delt with your life challenges and diffirculties and shared them with us in such a positive way. Im sure our paths have crossed at many of those soul do’s you have mentioned in your book which brought back so many memories for me.
It has made such differance to my life meeting all you dear soulie’s over the last year…. carn’t begin to put it in to words… Thank you and keep the Faith x
Sandie
September 17th, 2009 at 10:25 am
Hi Reg,
I really really enjoyed your book and couldnt put it down when i started reading it! there were many funny moments as well as some really touching parts, but none of it was boring ha ha! i am also definatly going to get my mum to read it as well as i know she will definitely remember the songs and the clubs that you mentioned!
Thanks for writing it Reg
Lots of Love
Kim xxx
September 21st, 2009 at 8:17 pm
Hi Reg,
Where do I begin. Such a great read, could not put the book down, I’m not a great one for reading books but this one was just so engrossing. I was chatting to a few of my friends about it, and they all said they could relate to certain parts of the book which mirrored their lives. This is not just a book about Soul Music, it’s a book about life, family & amp; friendship,about good times and sad moments. It is not often that I get the time to read a book, but the moment I read the opening page I was hooked.
Top book from a lovely fella!!!
September 26th, 2009 at 1:33 am
Hi Reg,
I just wanted to say that your book is the most engrossing and emotive books about the ‘ Soul’ scene i have ever read, and i was hooked from the opening page. Its great to read a book from someone with such a passion & love for the music and the ‘ Scene’ in general. There is not one person i know who after reading it has not said how fantastic and at times moving it was, and how we ‘all’ in a way feel a part of ‘ourselves’ in the things you write about, and can relate to so many of the things you say. I was so pleased to finally catch up with you at the Kursaal in Southend the other weekend, and it was an honour for me, that you kindly signed my copy of your book,
Many thanks Reg, Your an inspiration to all us ‘ Soul’ music lovers,
Kindest Regards, Richard Rowland
October 12th, 2009 at 7:51 pm
Hi Reg,
should of left this a long time ago when I read your book, but forgive me for not doing so..Having got into the Soul scene virtually straight from school I was just a year or so too late for The Wigan and Blackpool Scene, but was brought up on some of those tunes from my elder brother playing them before he went out on our old Dansette record player! The book evokes so many memories of tunes and dancing, but also takes you back to an era that gave so many happy memories. Rarely was there any trouble or hassle just people going for the music and your book brings it all back.
I’m glad that there are more than a few of us left to keep it going weekly or monthly, but do worry that by the time we are in late fifties and sixties it will all die away forever, as I can’t remember seeing anyone genuinely under 30 at a doo recently without being there under duress LOL…! the books a cracker perhaps another one in the offing Reg? on clubs in the late 70′s 80′s and 90′s that were dedicated to Soul in the South? TOP ONE SEE YOU SOON
October 15th, 2009 at 5:40 pm
Hi Reg.
Hope you are well? Just a few lines to say how much I enjoyed reading your book. I’m not a big Northern fan in the slightest but the passion for the choons and the people and all the things we used to do to go souling come through and was spot on. We used to go all over the south of the country for a good night like you.
We are of similar ages and I loved The Goldmine and original Lacy Lady and adored the Galleon and Bali Hi/Atlantis in Margate for the weekenders back in the mid 70′s and early 80s. We probably crossed paths back then while admiring Tommy Mac’s moves on the floor.
As you know, I promote/DJ the ‘Soul@TheShip’ nights and it was good to meet you at The Ship Pub in Leigh on Sea, Essex for a charity alldayer recently. We were introduced by Bev and Bangys and I bought a copy of your book on the strength of their recommendation. I also enjoyed having a further chat at the Southend Kursaal do in the evening.
Going to Caister this year in October 2009 was really great we met up again. I must admit I did smile when you wrote about your experiences there in the book and the swimming routines too. I felt really at home at Caister and will be back soon. I loved giving it my all to the jazz funk and Broken beat jazz stuff in the Club Room – However to be honest most things got me moving as I love to dance. Oh and I loved the BBQs and banter!
On another level, with my mum not very well with Parkinsons and in hospital at present. I found a real insight and comfort in your personal experiences with your mum.
Just to say I enjoyed the book and it’s a really good read. Well played.
Cheers
Gary
October 18th, 2009 at 8:21 pm
Hi Reg,
Just wanted to say I loved your book, should have done this last year when I read it but thats me, memory like a sieve!! Being the age I am it was great to hear such great experiences of someone who had actually been on the scene (apart from me dad!) at its height. I am sooo jealous, as you know, of the ‘this is your life’ moment!!! I have actually read the book for a second time since I saw you last, it is that good!! I have just passed it on to my dad who is not much of a reader, if he is reading it it must be a fantastic read!
Well done Reg,
Love you,
Ha thanks Ella what a lovley reviue and if you were jealous of the this is your life bit what’s yer dad goner think!!
lots of love
little Reg xx
Ella
November 30th, 2009 at 10:34 am
I bought this book at The East Anglian Soul Weekend, having seen LITTLE REG at various events over the years but never having spoken to the man. I can now say that i have met my siamese twin, though we where seperated 8 years apart. The book it just an amazing account of the love of a SOULIE (reggies words) search for music and clubs to fill the insatiable need for SOUL MUSIC. I can relate to so much, as i followed Reg’s path but 8 years later. Having been to young to get into the northern scene (which The Hunstanton weekender has now done so) the parallels are just amazing as we searched for clubs in the south to travel to for our need for soul and funk. Please buy this book, and i defy you to see a bit of you in REG. A truley amazing acoount of all SOULIES passion for the scene and the music.
December 10th, 2009 at 10:12 pm
Reg…you tell it like it is – with great humour, fabulous depth, kindness and warmth. A thoroughly decent bloke who isn’t afraid to care. Thank you. I am proud to call you a friend, no – an honorary brother (whether you like it or not).
Anytime you need a sofa
P
x
December 13th, 2009 at 8:13 pm
David Bishop 13 December at 16:51
Reg Stickings is an ordinary man with an extraordinary passion for music and dancing and soul music in particular. Reg was lucky to have been a teenager in England in the late sixties and early seventies, an era in popular music and soul music in particular that was inventive, original, exciting and fun.
Taking his cue from Nick Hornby’s ‘Fever Pitch’, Reg describes his life growing up in Hemel Hempstead discovering the simple joys of teenage life, music and beyond but with soul music as his main guide and friend along the way. Unusually for a southern lad at the time he discovered what’s now known as the ‘Northern’ Soul scene and together with his friends and one in particular – ‘Yogi’ – showed a rare sense of adventure and travelled all over, checking out new clubs, DJ’s and sounds in a never ending quest and well before the days of the Internet and mobile phones. It was all by word-of-mouth only.
Reg writes as he speaks; with passion for the subject and with an almost childlike enthusiasm describing how he felt when hearing a new favourite ‘choon’ and his description of the ‘Northern’ clubs of the day is evocative and atmospheric – you really feel you are there with him, including the now legendary Wigan Casino. I only wish I were there with him too.
This book isn’t just a snapshot of one era and sub-genre of soul but brings you up to date as now his children are grown, he is now back out there enjoying the new music (north and south!) and scene with a vengeance. He’s come out to play all over again!
Reg’s aspiration to better himself and discover something new shines though this book as does his love for his family and friends. I only hope today’s teenagers feel the same about their current era of music and fashion as Reg and ‘Yogi’ did about theirs and if they do, they have a lot of fun to look forward to.
Reg is not only one of the nicest people I’ve ever met but loves his soul music (old and new) with a rare passion and this book is a thoroughly entertaining read, in turns funny, sad, atmospheric and above all, fun. It makes me wish I were a teenager again!
Thoroughly recommended.
December 26th, 2009 at 12:55 pm
i came across reg’s book in my local library and wot a find it turned out to be. me and my mates love king georges hall in blackburn but we hadnt been for about 4 years. reading this book reminded us wot we were missing. he inspired us in a big way.we ended up getting a taxi from liverpool to blackburn and home again. £130 it cost us and it was worth every penny. we danced the legs off ourselves! even though we hadnt been for years it was great that alot of people remembered us and wanted to know why we hadnt been for ages. even richard searling asked where we had been! that was the highlight of my night!! deffo my fave book ever. thanks reg. soul on xx
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January 16th, 2010 at 11:39 am
I’ve just finished reading Searching for Soul, and can honestly say I loved every page, every word. Reg is absolutely brilliant at telling his story, with such clarity you feel as though you are there with him. Reg’s positive outlook on life is an inspiration and his enthusiasm for everything he does is infectious. It’s clear that he has a wonderful open and friendly personality which has made him many friends and opened many doors. Family, friends, football and Soul Music are everything to this man, but I dare say he would have given his all to any hobby or pursuit he had chosen.
Life is far from over, so I do hope that Reg finds it within himself to put pen to paper once more and eventually writes a follow up.
Thanks Reg. All the best to you and yours. Your book comes highly recommended xx
Thanks Fiona for your brillant book reviue i hope to meet you one day x
February 23rd, 2010 at 11:33 am
i have just read reg,s book ( searching for soul ) whilst on holiday in lanzarote and can honestly say i thouroughly enjoyed it , the memories came flooding back from those fantastic all nighters at wigan and buying my first piece of vinyl on the balcony ( bobby paris / i walked away ) and then travelling back to hull on the coach and occasionlly stopping at cleethorpes for an all dayer . the book made me laugh and it also brought a tear to my eye , and most of all it was an absaloute pleasure to read about the trials and tribulations of a really nice guy and 100% true soulie ,,,,cheers reg……ktf.
April 6th, 2010 at 7:10 pm
An outstanding account on one man’s love of Soul Music and how it shaped his life. You finish the book feeling as if you know Reg, and, you recognize also that Reg Sticking’s is a hero to a generation. Bravo. Sybil Gage, Jazz Blues and Soul Singer.
WOW Thanks Sybil so please you liked the read i feel the same about your singing.xx
May 4th, 2010 at 7:26 pm
I had the honour of being introduced to reg at caister last weekend.I bought a copy of the book,and the night I returned home I sat and read it cover to cover.Must admit northern soul is not my thing but the book was excellent and told me what I had worked out the night I met reg,this man is a true gent and a legend.
having recently lost my father to cancer,reg’s recent loss of his parents struck a cord with me and so the book made me smile,laugh and cry.
once again thank you reg – see you in october
May 12th, 2010 at 12:22 pm
I bought the book from Reg at Caister, opened it as the train pulled out of Stevenage station, was crying by Doncaster and laughing out loud at York! As the train pulled into Newcastle I was reading the final page. This is a truly beautiful book because you can feel the love that Reg has for his music and people on every page. It’s Reg through and through … heart and soul.
Lovley words lou so please you liked the read Thankyou xx
July 10th, 2010 at 8:56 pm
I bought this book with the ‘soul’ intention of reading it while I toasted my fat Scottish erse in the Turkish sun! Had a quick read, just to get the feel of it and 12 hours later I had finished it. Could not put it down! Can’t put my finger on any one aspect of the book that made it so compelling. It’s just a good HONEST account of the life, times and tribulations of a soul punter. My missus doesn’t buy into the scene, she likes some of the ‘choons’ and that. But the ‘state of mind, way of life’ thing goes right over her head. Reg’s book portrays this ethos to the full. As I have stated previously to Reg, this book is a must for ANY soullie.
R.E.S.P.E.C.T.
Soulger
Thanks for the book reviue Soulger so please you liked it
all the best
Reg .
July 27th, 2010 at 7:54 pm
If you are looking for a definitive history of the Northern soul scene I could recommend some excellent, well-researched and nicely-packaged books by the likes of David Nowell, Mike Wilson and Stuart Russell or – more recently – Neil Rushton. Most of them, however, do tend to treat Northern soul as a standalone movement – slightly frozen in time, constrained by geography and more-or-less book-ended by the opening of the Twisted Wheel in Manchester and the closing down of Wigan Casino.
But Reg’s story is not like that. Instead it recounts – in first person – the story of a Hemel Hempstead lad who discovered soul music at his local youth club in the late 1960s and the life long journey this discovery sent him on.
From Bennetts End Youth Club to the Cali in Dunstable, to Wigan Casino, Cleethorpes Pier, the Blackpool Mecca, to the Top Rank in Watford, the Goldmine in Canvey Island and numerous Caister Soul Weekends. Reg’s sharp memory brings all these legendary old venues to life – the sounds, the smells, the atmosphere. It is also a tale of Blues & Soul magazine, back street record shops, Kingsway loafers, Levi jackets, Fred Perrys, white socks and tonik suits, Oxford bags and soul club patches. At centre stage is Reg’s beloved archive of imported US vinyl, the records that soundtracked his journey, from Edwin Starr to the Salsoul Orchestra to the Sunburst Band.
But perhaps most importantly of all, it is the story of the characters, of the laughter and tears, the fun and camaraderie – the lifelong friends (the ‘soulies’) that Reg made along the way and their passionate dedication to great music which – despite recent reports to the contrary – is still burning just as strongly in the 21st
Century!
Thanks for taking the time to write this wonderfull book reviue
All The Best
Reg .
August 4th, 2010 at 5:18 pm
Reg,
I purchased your book last evening at Soul Brother,and read it through the night,you really are an inspirational person,truly Soul Royalty.
Whilst I thoght that running around West London with my few records under my Arm ,there you are practically doing a “World Tour”.
An excellent read,that I can relate to in so many ways,its got me Back on the Right Track,
I look forward to seeing you at your next event,I`ll get there early and buy you a drink,
Thank You,
Tom Heduan
A third Division soul Man
So please you enjoyed the read Tom
all the best Reg .
August 7th, 2010 at 12:12 pm
reg you a true soulboy and have not been blinded by just one kind off soul you´ve opened up your ears and heart to the true sound of soul…. and let it touch you in a way that most of only dream of… you bathed yourself in in the voices of some of the greatest artist to ever grace the scene… and you´ve taking the time to share those memories with us throught your book and i THANK YOU….. it´s as if you´ve allowed us in to every venue with you on some special guest list thanks reg… come over to mine and pick through some of the stuff i´v gotnot sure it´s worth much… but i´d rather it was played than gathering dust mate.. and would make my day if you everplayed it out……
Thanks for taking the time to write this lovley book reviue and i would love to thumble through your record box one day cheers
All The Best Reg.
August 11th, 2010 at 5:29 pm
Mick Conroy
If anyone wants to read a book about soul this is a must Searching for Soul By Reg Sticklings Ive just finished it in 1 word BRILLIANT had the Pleasure to meet him last week at clacton He signed the book with a personal message and yes Reg i liked it as much as i love my music Thank You
Sara Cummings It was good, read it last year. He eventreated us and read us his final chapter himself outside,on the Sunday morning! x x
August 25th, 2010 at 6:01 pm
What a fantastic book this is! I just wanted to say that I read it from cover to cover in one long sitting as I was totally transported into Reg’s world!
I’m very jealous of Reg and all that he experienced during his search for soul…it must have been so exciting, terrifying and exhilarating all at the same time.
If you haven’t read it, go out and buy it. If you have already read it, then read it again. Genius!
August 25th, 2010 at 6:11 pm
Awesome read. Thanks very much Reg, you certainly brought back allot of my forgotten memories. Highly recommend this book, even to non-soulies.
KTF…… Bridgey (Ian Bridge)
August 25th, 2010 at 6:35 pm
I got reg’s book a while ago and started it and then didnt get to finish it. After a short period i picked it up and started it again didnt put it down till i finished it. Once read this is the text i send to reg and all of u will know wot i mean by this text it said…………..
I did it…………..finally finished it. I get it, I laughed, I cried, it made me smile, it made me feel honoured to call you my friend, it made me feel warm. I was meant to finish it when i did as it has helped me so much with wot i am goin through. Thank you and i love you xx
It kinda summed it up for me for wot i got from the book on very much a personal level.
What was odd is that my daughter had kawasaki’s disease and it is so rare it to find someone else who son/daughter has had it as it is a rare condition and to think i had known reg a while and didnt know it till i read his book. he is someone that describes himself as an ordinary bloke well he has touched so many people in so many ways with out realising it. To me Reg you will never b just an ordinary bloke but someone who is very very special and rare today you are just urself and that is a kind and carin genuine person. Thanks for the support u r givin me rite now and just for being my friend and for being you, and not even realising how wonderful you truely are.
My grandmother always believed angels walk among us and we dont even know it but touch r lives when we need them to even in a small way well mayb she was rite and they come into r lives when we least expect and dont even look like angels. Well Reg came into my life when i needed some support and friendship and change of directions, so mayb he is mine in some way and some of you all who have read his book or just been his friends.
September 2nd, 2010 at 12:33 pm
“just read regs book searching for soul, what a great read,reading how reg found his way through the various soul clubs and scenes i found fasinating because it differed so much to my own yet weve all ended up at the same place reading how reg bought his first suit down tottenham high road is a great story yet how he didnt embrace the football club 800 yards down the road will remain a mystery to me ha ha, but what comes across strong in the book is not only regs love of soul but his love of life, and i think that is the main reason why wherever the old bastard goes people love the man and more importantly reg loves people, a great book reg be proud…..spuddy boy”
Great review Spuddy Boy
October 22nd, 2010 at 2:05 pm
5.0 out of 5 stars essential reading, 8 Jun 2008
By swarvharv (u.k) – See all my reviews
This review is from: Searching for Soul (Paperback)
in this ‘fast-money-making’ and ‘image obsessed’ music industry of today, this book is a refreshing and honest insight into one man’s love of a particular genre of music and life itself.
reg delivers his life in an interesting, humerous and often moving style that belies his early struggles with the english language.
the book also deals with the fashion aspects which often goes hand in hand with music scene’s, particularly soul, and also friendships and the ups and downs of what life throws at you.
i strongly recommend this book to anyone who ‘feels from deep within’ any style of music and enjoys the fruits of life.
i wish every success to reg on this book. keep it soulful brother!
November 15th, 2010 at 9:49 pm
well what can i say! as soon as i got my book through the post i got a glass of wine and took reg to bed with me! lol i couldnt put him down! i felt as if i was with him every step of the way through his soulfull journey,i read the book in 4hours i couldnt put it down,one minute i was laughing and the next i was crying! its such a fantastic book and once you lot get your copy over the weekend you will understand what i mean!
im not with you all this weekend im 5mnths pregnant so see ya next year!
love to all xx
Great reviue Lorna and thanks for being one of me Angel’s
November 15th, 2010 at 10:01 pm
Hi Reg,
I brought your book at Caister, had the day off today to get over the hangover and post caister blues and couldn’t put your book down and finished it in a day!
I loved the stories and the memories it’s so you, you can ‘hear’ your voice throughout it and it makes the book more meaninful!
It makes me wish I was born 15 years earlier and so want to be there in the early days at Wigan etc! (think it must be the only time I’ve wished myself older!)
Well done Reg. I know after having a chat with you when I brought the book, what you went through to write it, seven years well spent i say!
Thanks for the laughs, tears and a bloody good read!
Sharon – Space Cadet
November 15th, 2010 at 10:06 pm
Great read Reg,started it Tuesday night,busy on Wednesday,finished it last night.Will stick something on Amazon for you when I get a minute.
So many bits of it took me back to those stages of my life too.Really laughed at Pete and Alan and the guys filing up your bag with empties at Southport laugh.gif
Can you email me Reg?,theres a couple of things i’d like to pick your brains about (mark 67 at blueyonder dot co dot uk)
Make sure you’ve got the film rights sorted!
Mark
November 15th, 2010 at 10:12 pm
Hi Reg,
I bought your book for my fella at Caister on the last day. I hope you remember me (you sang ‘Overdose of Joy’ to me from start to finish) and one of my soulsistas took a nice pic of us. I really enjoyed talking to you and it was a lovely end to yet another great Caister. As promised I read it first and I couldn’t put it down! It made me laugh, cry and get the tingles! You’re an inspiration.
I’d love to have a boogie with you at the next Caister, but I think I’m gonna have to get to the back of the queue!
Big hugs n kisses
Curlywurly
November 15th, 2010 at 10:16 pm
In all honesty (sorry Reg) I only became aware of the infamous ‘Little Reg’ and ‘Searching for Soul’ via this forum. However I read all the fantastic reviews and decided to purchase a copy of said book.
Well I now feel I know you personally Reg. An amazing story, full of emotion, nostalgia, humour, detail and of course fantastic music.
We all have our own story to tell about our ‘Soul Journey’ which I’m certain has similar parallels but few have the talent, inclination, narrative kills that you do sir!
Hat’s off to ya…
I’m off to dance round the living room now to a bit of Eugene Record…………lol
November 15th, 2010 at 10:20 pm
Well, little reg,finally started the book,once that first old memory made me smile,you had me hooked,all finished now,didn’t want to stop,like so many have said made me smile,laugh and i must admit a tear in my eye in a few places,
Your a top man reg,
Allthough,i’ve not a big knowledge of northern soul,i feel now i want to learn more,but the stories and experiences relate to all of us who have the privledge to have soul in our lives,
Although,i’ve only known you a little while,after reading the book,i feel i know you are a lot better.
thanks for sharing your wonderful memories with us.
November 15th, 2010 at 10:25 pm
Bit of a slow reader but finally finished the book last weekend enjoyed every minute of it and brought back a lot of memories of my miss spent youth.
Up to chapter 15 I was with you all the way Reg and I am sure our paths must surely have crossed we were like ‘ships in the night’.
I know this is suppossed to be a review of Reg’s book but please for give me if I reminisce and go on a short stroll down memory lane.
I did 3 years at the Casino and looking back probably the best 3 years of my life.
Funny how you mention the condensation and smell of Brut aftershave which crops up in other books and TV documentaries, but it’s true that is the first thing that springs to mind when brought up in conversation.
I was also there the night Betty Wright appeared. You might be interested to know thar a few weeks before she was due to appear a guy I know called Dave Leedham from Halifax nicked a poster of the wall advertising the event, nothing special, bright Orange with Black writing (no computer graphics in those days) he still has it and a few years ago was offered £500 for it but refused to sell.
I was also at the Leeds Soul festival at the Queens Hall, Major Lance JJ Barnes, Jnr. Walker appearing they also did an alldayer which featured The Detriot Emeralds.
Fashion and Football went hand in hand with the Soul music and in Reg’s book there are several references to Knutsford Services in Cheshire, which reminds me of the time when as a Bradford City fan 2 coaches set off at midnight on friday to play at Torquay United, fuelled up with bottles of Clan Dew we had to make a pee stop at Knutsford. You can imagine the scence, 1.30am, 100 slightly inebriated footy fans in the selfservice. To cut a long story short my mate Derek Nelson got nicked for the ‘theft of a sausage roll’ he never got to the game and spent the night in the cells. About a month later I took the day of work and went with him to Knutsford Magistrates where he got a conditonal discharge. I sat at the back of the court and it took me all my time to keep a staight face.
The week after was a trip to Blackpool Mecca, I was lucky enough to be going out with a girl who’s sister was at Teacher Training College over there so we used to stop at her place.
The Cleethorpes Nighters used to be brilliant until one stormy night the Pier ended up in the sea, thankfully nobody was on it at the time and that was the end of that.
Anyway, I’d just like to say ‘Thanks for the memories Reg’ and I think everybody that’s read your book and goes to Caister are still ‘Searching For Soul’ it’s in our blood and will never go away.
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Soul up North….!
November 15th, 2010 at 10:31 pm
Finished your blindin book several weeks back Reg, but cos I haven’t my own pooter & the miserable gits at work have barred me from the Caister website (bloody Phillistines!!!!) it’s taken me a wee while to put fingers to keyboard!!
Couldn’t put it down once i started it, your descriptions of places & times made you feel like you were there (could’ve sworn i was standing on that sprung wooden dance floor at Wigan Casino!!) The Casino in it’s heyday was a little before my time but i remember thinking a coupla years back the first time i set foot inside the Kings Hall, Stoke, ‘I wonder if this is what Wigan Casino was like?’ I remember going upstairs to the balcony looking down on the Northern soulies below, now I know i’m gettin on a bit, but there were people on that dance floor older than me but there was nuthin ‘old’ about their moves i can tell you!!
I didn’t get into the soul scene until the very end of the 70′s/early 80′s but the passion regarding the choons & fashions never change!! Reg, thanks for a brilliant book & thanks again for scribblin in it last Caister – much appreciated. Nearly forgot, was down in Aldershot a few weeks back reminiscing about my Army days, & thought I’d pay a visit to the Soulmine. What a gem!! I can’t remember the guy’s name who owns it, but what a top bloke, he let us have a look round even tho’ he was closed!!
Reg, all the Best mate, see ya in Sept, Thanks again, TopNorthernBird (Carol) xx
November 15th, 2010 at 10:37 pm
Well I got my copy of ‘Searching for Soul’ at long last…bless you Reg for saving it for me xxxx
I’ve got to say what a beautifully written story of ur soul journey Reg…I loved every bit of it.
Being a few years younger I missed the early days of how things got started but felt I was there with you all while reading this. I loved all the details of tracks, artists & labels & the venues…how you remember it all is beyond me coz i 4get what i did yesterday!!! but most of all i loved the understanding between us ‘soulies’ the friendliness & brother/sisterhood that binds us together as a family…which u described so eloquently Reg..
I sang my head off to so many of the ‘choons’ mentioned & it was a total pleasure to read…10/10 ***** with 5 stars
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November 24th, 2010 at 9:18 pm
Andy Michael24 November 2010 at 04:12
Subject: Many Thank’s
Dear Reg.
Many thank’s for accepting me as a friend on Facebook. I met you a couple of years ago at Caister,where you kindly signed your book for me,( To Andy our Froggy’s roadie,i hope you love my book as much as you loved Froggy ). When i read your word’s i was really moved. Your book was a great read & my thoughts will always be with you and your family. Do hope to meet you again 1day,hopefully before you write your next book!
Very best wishes & respect to you Reg
Andy,Original Froggy Roadcrew xxx
December 1st, 2010 at 6:54 pm
Derek wrote
“Sir Reg and yes you deserve a knighthood for such a brilliant book! Thanks for your great comments about the Mallet makes one feel very proud of the Cambridge soul scene. I will be telling everyone I know to read it…loved the bit about the credit cards.. my wife had hers stolen last week I havent told the police as the robbers are spending less than she was! The rest of your book has had me in fits of laughter and shared tears as well as wonderful memories of Hanway street etc and as a born again soul retread really looking forward to building great friendships over the coming years with great people like you.take care..cheers Derek and Sue :}”
January 12th, 2011 at 8:07 pm
Hi Reg!
Just wanted to leave you a message to thank you so much for passing your book onto my Mum (Diane) who in turn passed it on to me!
I absolutely loved reading the book, it was fascinating for me as a relative youngster, my parents both grow up in the North West and I can relate to so many of the tunes you mention in the book, as these were the sounds I grow up listening to! My dad always used to tell us stories about Wigan Casino, and it made it so real for me reading about your passion, dedication and utter enjoyment of the soul scene.
It really was a fascinating read, there were times when I literally laughed out loud. I will be passing your ‘Soul Journey’ onto my friends, its a must read for all music fans, and an education for us younger guys!
Would be fantastic to meet you one day at a Soul Event, if my mum doesn’t mind me cramping her style!
Congratulations on a fab read!
Many Thanks
Katie Stirling
January 17th, 2011 at 7:20 pm
Suzie Landers16 January 2011 at 21:43
)) love you loads and loads xxxxx
Hello my darlin Reg
Got to tell you this story…I was in Gillingham park this morning with my kids when a man asked if I was a soulie (I had a caister top on) when I said yes his next question was…Have you read ‘Searching For Soul’ …I told him I knew you and we had a long conversation about you, the book and the soul scene….he said he had loved your book so much that he had email you once and is now on your facebook friends list….I told him what a fab person you are in real life & amp; he said to say Hello from ‘Ray the plasterer from Rochester’…. Happy days Reg,
Suzie
February 23rd, 2011 at 9:23 pm
Diane Stirling July 6, 2010 at 12:38am
Hi Reggie, just got back today and i feel like you have been away with me. I read your book the whole time and loved every minute of it. My daughter has taken it to read it and then we are going to do a book review for you. You have made me even more passionate about soul, and i loved it cos i knew alot of the tunes, I was a huge fan of Chairman of the Board, and had the vinyl, wish i knew where all my music has got to, im gong to ask my mum if she has kept any of them. xx
February 27th, 2011 at 7:43 pm
Gillian Dennis 22 February at 10:07
hi Reg, at last, ive read your book, and loved it. it made me laugh, some bits even made me cry. and reading the list of tunes started me off humming on the way to work. got to work showed my manager, whos also a soul boy, he liked your list of tunes and started tolling off prices! lol, made me laugh. well done u. we’ve even been to the same clubs, how funny. hope u are well and chat soon. Gillie X
April 3rd, 2011 at 8:59 pm
“Just got your book here in Melbourne Australia. It’s awsome.!! Can’t put it down. Penny recommended it, and she’s so right. You’re one lucky fella.! Superb book, touches the soul – right there. Well Done
May 11th, 2011 at 9:46 pm
Oh my lovely Little Reg
Funny how books can make you laugh and cry – Searching for Soul was excellent, absolutely excellent.
Was thrilled to read about the favourite tunes you love too even though I consider them ‘my’ tunes if you know what I mean.
See you at the next Caister sunshine or hopefully before that.
Helen
x
June 6th, 2011 at 7:07 pm
Hi Regs,
Your book is the first book I read about the Northern Soul phenomenon and I want to say that I really enjoy this book because instead of focusing only on the source the singles and all the cult with this wonderful music I just realized that there is also some great friendships behind all those brillant memories that you took a pleasure to share with you. Now I think I am really lucky to read your book as my first reading about the subject. I think we can’t dream of a better initiation because you collect all the records you heard on the clubs where you used to go and it was some precious infos for a newcomer like me that’s why I want to salute you and sending you my best regards from the froggies area. …and many thanks for the dedication soulbrother. Wish you all the best amd much love as it is always with this music…..Kareem Black one of your soulie friend in France….
June 9th, 2011 at 11:10 am
Reg I remember how excited you were when the book was launched , good to see it’s still doing well , it’s an essential soulful read.
Thanks for including me in your top DJs and remember
“I’ll always love my mama”
Regards
Tony
Thanks Tony for your kind word’s all the best Reg .
June 12th, 2011 at 10:14 am
Hiya Reg – I’m one of the GND crew from Caister – short blonde one who was dancing at the Northern session! Your set in our van was one of the highlights of the weekend! Just started reading your book and it is brilliant – has brought back so many memories for me – the clothes the music – bloody well done you for all your hard work!! Will be checking out the Northern tunes you listed that I am not so familiar with! Love to you and your family! Gill.
Thanks Gill it was one of the highlightsof my weekend as well.
June 29th, 2011 at 7:17 pm
Thoroughly enjoyed the book,read it cover to cover on the first day and then again on the second week, it evoked so many memories although the clubs I went to were down south ,the incidents , fashions,football brought back so many good times from my youth, so off to Whitby to relive it. ktf Mike
August 7th, 2011 at 7:39 pm
hi reg,what a fab read your book is,read it twice in three days.Another two freinds bought it too and both loved it.I was made up to see you on my wedding video at pontins prestatyn,hopefully you enjoyed our wedding as much as we did,unfortunately i didnt know you then to be able to thank you in person, for giving us such a great insight of your life.Look forward to reading your next book if you realease one,many thanks phil.
Wow What can i say Phil so please that you enjoyed the read it’s comments like this that made the seven years of writing it so worth while so thank you and what a wedding that was i loved it mate on the website you can see the tv doc and hear all the radio interviews its see what you think..
all the best Reg
August 8th, 2011 at 8:14 am
Hi Reg its Michael here loved your book…….Awsome days going to the twisted wheel in manchester…oh those heady days of youth great music and lovely people……..everythings so insular these days …..we need to get back to the reason why soul was listened to ….to bring people together no matter what colour race or creed …its an attitude that will always be in me ….keep the faith lolmxx
August 18th, 2011 at 1:47 pm
5.0 out of 5 stars Loved it…thanks Reg!, 14 Aug 2011
(Staffordshire, UK) –
I met Reg whilst holidaying in Tunisia, he is one of the nicest chaps I have met. I’m not really into soul music, however I was interested to read about Reg’s experience on the music scene and how he came to have some rare records and how he went about getting them. Also, the book has an undercurrent of lessons in life and can really evoke emotions that we can all relate to when we have experienced hard times. Well done Reg.
August 18th, 2011 at 2:04 pm
5.0 out of 5 stars Little Reg, Big Heart, Massive Soul, 9 Dec 2007
By Mr. Michael Wren “Northern Mick” (UK) – See all my reviews
(REAL NAME) This review is from: Searching for Soul (Paperback)
Here is a book that, by rights, shouldn’t exist. Reg, the author, doesn’t find reading and writing easy but knew he had a story to tell. So, through a seven year long process of handwriting his thoughts, dictating them to friends and family who then typed it up, we have this marvellous insider’s tale of a not so ordinary man in an extraordinary music scene.
Thanks to the way it was written this book has a unique style akin to listening to a seasoned storyteller. You don’t notice as you turn each page keen to learn what happens next. What happens next is each stage in the evolution of a undergound music scene that is as popular today as it was thirty years ago, and still populated by the same people (and their kids). The wonderful life affirming dance music that forms the backbone of both the Northern and Southern Soul scenes in the UK are the stuff of life for Reg as he, a Southerner (along with his best friend Yogi) grows up with the Northern Soul scene then learns to love the Southern scene in equal measure. He takes us through his highs and lows with laughter and tears as he balances his responsibilities as a husband and father with his passion for his music, those ever so precious records and his soul mates.
Those that are familiar with the UK soul scenes will love this story as they spot those names and places that also mean so much to them. Others will simply love it as a story of a life well lived while following an irresistable passion.
Finally, I must declare my interest. I moved down from the North of England to the apparently soulless South in the early 90′s only to find a few years later that Northern Soul was alive and well in the shape of Reg and Yogi’s soul nights in Hemel Hempstead. Both Reg and Yogi made me very welcome and have become two of my favourite soul mates. A soul night without little Reg’s big smile in the middle of the dance floor is a night not complete. Read this book and get to know him too.
August 18th, 2011 at 2:13 pm
5.0 out of 5 stars surprised by so much soul, 19 Dec 2007
By dylanfan (Hemel Hempstead UK) – See all my reviewsThis review is from: Searching for Soul (Paperback)
I bought the book because Alan Cottee, a friend and the photographer involved in the splendid cover, recommended it. I wasn’t keen because I don’t like Soul, but having read it, I like Reg Stickings : he writes a wonderful story about the adventure of growing up;about friendships and passions, music and obsessions, danger and disaster,losing and winning yet nearly all the time seeing the funny side, nearly all the time because when he writes about the very sad time he is as moving as he is honest. The brilliance of his narrative, and you can hear his voice as he writes,is that his story is compelling, insightful and blessed with happiness. It is also punctuated with endless lists, meaningless to me,but exciting to read because a man with obsessions,however daft,makes his subject live.
It may be meant to be about Soul but it is really about Heart and- even more -Love.He proves that every child has within him a dream,and,if you are lucky you can make that dream come true. If you are really blessed you can write a book about it.
I wonder if I would have enjoyed it more if I had liked Soul. I couldn’t have. It is perfect.
September 6th, 2011 at 9:44 pm
Brilliant book !!
Hi Reg,
You probably won’t remember me, ( Fog from Newbury ) I met you at the Oxford soul club back in December and bought your book, which you kindly signed for me. Before I go any further Reg I must apologise. As soon as I bought your book I thought that when i’d read it i’d send you a couple of lines to tell you what I thought of it, i’m afraid this is likely to turn into War & Peace…..lol
Well, i’ve just finished it. I had hoped to have read it sooner but finding the time sometimes isn’t always easy !!. Anyway, what a brilliant read. There were so many times when I thought to myself “Yep I know what you mean there Reg, Yep I know that feeling Reg”.
Unfortunately I wasn’t old enough for Wigan, as I’m a mere 42 !!, but there have been other venues for me which I’m sure gave me the same buzz as Wigan did for you. Probably one of my favourite venues of all time was the Old School House is Woking, I went there quite regular in mid to late 80’s, always loved the place. It seemed a perfect venue, massive dancefloor which was always packed, great songs being played, record sellers and the dancers were out of this world, and when I read in your book about some dancers use to wear ballet shoes, well some of the guys at Woking use to wear Karate slippers, and these guys were amazing.
I did have an extra big smile on my face when you mention Jon buck & the Unicorn Club in Leighton buzzard. This was the venue of my first “proper” allnighter Nov 85, and i’ve still got the flyer in a scrapbook !!. I had been to a few allnighters before the Unicorn Club but they were on the National Scooter Rallies, but more about scootering in a minute. So, my first allnighter. Well, there had been a Soul night in Newbury ( my home town, and it was great that you mention Jacko Merritt in your book. I only met Jacko a couple of times when I was younger, but he came across as a really nice guy, and many of my fellow Soulies from Newbury still speak very fondly of him ), anyway, halfway through the evening a couple of the “older” soulies came and asked if I fancied going to at allnighter at Leighton Buzzard later that night, they’d hired a coach and still had a couple of places…..so I jumped at the chance.
Like you, I i’ve always felt that so many “choons” bring so many different memories, and there is one particular track that always brings that night at Leighton Buzzard back. Now, i’ve probably heard a mere fraction of tracks that you have, sometimes I’d hear a track for the first time and think “Yes, I quite like that” and as time goes on you hear it more or you play it more and it becomes one of your favourites, but every now and then you hear a track for the first time and it totally blows your mind and makes the hairs on the back of your neck stand up. That track for me, which I heard for the first time that night at Leighton Buzzard was “Use it before you lose it – Bobby Valentin” Wow what a totally amazing track (but thats just my humble opinion), and to this day I would say it’s still probably my all time favourite.
And whilst on the subject of Leighton Buzzard, this is how strange life can be. I was introduced to someone for the first time that night, and he’s local to you who I know you’d know him, a guy called Brian De’Honri. Now, this is the strange thing. I was talking to my mum the following day about the allnighter and the people i’d met, and Brian’s name came up in the conversation. My mum said who’s this guy Brian De’Honri you mentioned ? “Well mum, he’s a guy who lives in Watford and I was introduced to him at the allnighter in Leighton Buzzard”. With that, my mum went up stairs and got her wedding photo album. Now, my mum and dad were married in 1963, she started flicking through the album until she came across an old black and white photo of a young lad in long shorts……and it was Brian !! It turns out that Brians younger brother was my mum and dads page boy !! My mum and Brians mum use to be really good friends, but lost touch many years before. So, because of me and Brian getting to know each other, our mums are now back in touch with each other and have been able to rekindle their friendship.
So scootering. I love the scoots, and the LD looks really sweet. I sold my Lambretta last year (business has been awful and needed the money……..drastic times take drastic measures!! ), but i’ve still got the Vespa and i’m in the process of building a Vespa P200 cutdown with a race tuned 225cc engine. Hoping to get it on the road this year for the rallies. We were all Mods at school and when we left school got into scooters. This was the mid 80’s and the Mod scene was starting to die out but we kept the scooters and kept doing the rallies. This is when I was introduced to Northern soul. After the Mod thing, some people went down the “Scooter Boy” route while others, like me went down the Northern Soul route, and I would say from that day it has played such a positive part in my life. No matter how low I may feel, I know I can stick a couple of Northern tracks on and the mood changes. In fact, my first tattoo was of a broken heart with a scroll holding both sides together, and the writing in the scroll says “Heart of Soul”. Friends have often asked what is the significance of the tattoo, my reply is always the same, no matter how many times my heart may get broken there is always soul music to hold it together…..I know it sounds corny ( I was only 18 when I had it done), but that thought is still with me. My other tattoo is the old Chelsea badge, but after Liverpool’s result against Reading tonight we best not talk about football
Anyway Reg, enough waffle from me. I loved the book, but there was one big disappointment…..and that was that the book ended . We all led our friends CD’s, DVD and books but I can assure you, your book is staying with me as I know i’d never get it back if I lend it to people !!
My thought will be with you on Saturday mate.
Very best regards
Fog
September 6th, 2011 at 9:59 pm
Spud wrote
“just read regs book searching for soul, what a great read,reading how reg found his way through the various soul clubs and scenes i found fasinating because it differed so much to my own yet weve all ended up at the same place reading how reg bought his first suit down tottenham high road is a great story yet how he didnt embrace the football club 800 yards down the road will remain a mystery to me ha ha, but what comes across strong in the book is not only regs love of soul but his love of life, and i think that is the main reason why wherever the old bastard goes people love the man and more importantly reg loves people, a great book reg be proud…..spuddy boy”
September 6th, 2011 at 10:05 pm
Paul wrote
“Hey reg just read the book well done i loved it . being a soulie you jump into the pages because most of the book mirrors your own life growing up loving and living this thing that is soul music , the laughter and tears that come your way are all there , brill . I hope we can meet up one day if not at a soul do , Anfield will do, Come On You Reds . Cheers Reg”
September 6th, 2011 at 10:17 pm
Peter Redfern
Subject: Book and Bridge
Reg,
Really enjoyed your book – the perfect summer read and lots of lists!
I noticed you are from Hemel, well the company I work for are building the new bridge by the Kodak building – so when you see the bridge go up remember it was estimated and sold by a fellow soul fan.
Cheers
Pete
September 12th, 2011 at 9:27 pm
Hi Reg
My partner and I were in London over the Bank Holiday weekend. We went to the O2 Dome and ‘did’ the British Music Experience. I was most offended that there wasn’t a trace of soul in any of the dispays (motown was mentioned briefly). However, I did find your book in the shop afterwards!
I’ve just finished it – what a great read. I enjoyed every page of it. Thank you for putting into words what so many of us were priviledged to live and love.
Hope to meet you one of these days
xxx
Thanks for the lovley book reviue Carole i hope to meet you two one day xx
September 16th, 2011 at 9:42 pm
Stiliyan Loveandhappinessmusic
Hello from Bulgaria Reg
My name is Stiliyan & first of all I’m a music lover & have my own independent music & culture label Love & Happiness Music.
The music & promotin is Soul, Jazz, Funk, etc.
Apart of it I’m a music selector and I’m playing only vinyls.
I’ve grow up in a music family & my father (R.I.P.) showed me the way of music, playing for me artists like: Otis Redding, Wilson Picket, Ray Charles, Solomon Burcke, Aretha Franklin, Stevie Wonder, James Brown & the list goes on & on.
Nowadays I’m trying to educate the people in Bulgaria playing those kind of music from: Motown, Motorcity, ABC & many other labels.
At the moment I’m reading your book & I like it a lot! The book was presented to me by my close friend Perry Louis from Jazzcotech Dancers, London.
Thank you for the real stories, things & people in it & I really hope that one day you & others from that time will bring back the time of Cali, Storch, Top Rank, Wigan, etc.
Best regards & keep it real!
Stiliyan
September 17th, 2011 at 10:19 am
This is a must read for ALL music fans. It was a great read, funny, sad, it had it all!! The way you described the many places you have visited on your “weekenders” made me feel like I was there with you. Brilliant!! Loved all the stories Reg, only met you a few weeks ago but feel I’ve known you all my life. Reading Searching for Soul made me play all the Motown & soul “choons” that I love. Keep smiling! xx
PS – don’t forget my T-shirt
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Thanks Sharon so pleased you liked the read.
Reggie Byrd tee sheart on its way xx
September 19th, 2011 at 8:01 pm
“Hi Reg. I’m just back from a week away in Nice, in the South of France. I finally found time to properly read ‘Searching For Soul’ – what a book! I was sat on the balcony with a beer, got to page 108 (or something) and it’s suddenly like a list of my best mates – Pete Collins, Tony Matthews, Roni, Geoff Green, Marcus, Blowey. Wahey! We must hook up again sometime mate. Alan
September 19th, 2011 at 8:48 pm
Subject: Greetings
Hi Reg,
You won’t know me personally but having read your book (which was brilliant by the way) there are so many parallels in our lives of which music has played such a massive part. I really enjoyed the book and Yogi sounds like a top fella! The soulies you mention in the book are my kind of people…………people who enjoy the music and live for the music.
Music is my santuary, music is my life (Gary Bartz), and that’s how I would sum myself up. I bought my first record at 9 years old and haven’t stopped collecting music since and never will. It’s just the lack of space Reg mate, but I’ll always find a home for music! I maybe going to Caister in September so may see you there.
Thanks for taken the time to read my message and thanks again for offering me and many other soul music lovers a real insight into the Northern Soul scene
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Best Regards
Andy
September 19th, 2011 at 9:08 pm
Hello Reg… Thanks so much for arranging the book, and for the message to Karen, she was touched to say the least. I have to tell you mate, I was absolutely glued to your book, it was excellent. I was visiting Germany and made a brief stop to the UK to visit my family. I picked up your book from Simon, but I didn’t open it until about Thursday of last week. I read a few pages lying in bed that night and I was hooked. The next day I flew back to Canada, via Heathrow and Chicago. I slept in the terminal at Heathrow Friday night, but only actually slept for about an hour, the rest of the time I was reading your book. I finished it by the time I reached Chicago and what a brilliant read it was.
Many of the places you mentioned in the book I know of course, being a Hemelite and growing up their all my childhood and early adult life. I am 48 now, so a few years younger than you, nevertheless I was able to relate to everything you were talking about. I was not heavily into the Soul scene myself, but did love the music all the same. In fact I tuned in to channel 53 of my Sirrius Satelite Radio (Soul Town) as soon as I got into my car at the airport on Saturday night. They were playing Stevie Wonder when I tuned in and then played a couple of tracks I am sure you will remember, Four Tops (Baby I Need Your Lovin) and First Choice (Armed and Extremely Dangerous) I had a great time singing along in the car and they took me back to my disco days. I remember the OK Chicago Disco at the Pavillion in marlowes, perhaps a little after your time, but I do remember some’Soulies’ doing the moves of Northern Soul around 1973/1974.
Your mate Yogi and I have crossed paths twice, but he probably doesn’t remember me. First was when we were both part of the Hemel ‘It’s a Knockout’ team. we played Stevenage and Milton Keynes. I have pictures of the team when we went to Germany with the team, and Yogi is right there with me. Second and probably more important to me, was when we were both sitting in the lobby of Schroff in Maylands Avenue. We were going after the same job and waiting for our interview. I got the job and I still work for the same company today 26 years later !! Small world eh! I am so grateful to Yogi for not getting the job..haha My life would have been much different and I would never have moved to Canada, so tell him thanks.
Karen is heading back to England herself in a couple of weeks and intends to read the book then. I am sure she will enjoy it as much as I did.
Thanks again Reg, great story.
Take care mate
September 20th, 2011 at 8:36 pm
Well Reg what can I say, you had me hooked from the very first sentence.
I only met you the day I purchased your book and got to know you a lot over that weekend where we met , but now I feel that I have known you all my life. So many emotions both highs and lows. I know that your mum and dad are looking down on you with big smiles, full of pride for everything you have achieved. Your are an inspiration to many people, not just soulies but also those who have academic difficulties, you have shown that you can do anything if you put your mind to it and work hard to achieve it. It has also educated me more to the soul scene and my knowledge and love of the music is now much greater, as is the playlist in my ipod, although the bank balance is a little lighter from purchasing tracks, but I’m sure itunes are very grateful lol.
The book definately deserves a 5 star rating!!!!
Very proud to be one of probably thousands of Reggies Birds
Looking forward to seeing you at the next caister weekend
Lots of love, Adrienne x x x
P.S will now be passing your book over to hubby to read
WOW THANKYOU FOR THIS WONDERFULL BOOK REVIUE ADRIENNE A TEAR JUST TRIKCELD OF ME CHIN XX
October 12th, 2011 at 7:26 pm
Dave VJ
Hello Reg hope all is well. Thank u for writing your book. Its a great source of escapism and entertainment mixed with a great musical educational slant. May u sell many more
November 7th, 2011 at 9:09 pm
Tony Burdaky
Hiya pal,sorry not been in touch ,all work no play ,you know wot i mean ,just finish ure book matey , i know re gonna say wot took u so long ,wel im not a reader , kept pickin it up and putting it down , anyway , this weekend i started from the beginning and read it all the way through and wot a read , ure a diamond reg with a very understanding wife in Debs , shes a real trooper , u giv to people spmething that doesn’t cost a button , and thats friendship reg , wud luv to meet up, with some of ure friends from the book , me and yogi wud av a gud conva , wot with him bein a blue boy and me a red devil lol , and being brought not far from each other , if prestatyn is not on in march ,wud luv to bring ure adopted mancs down to caister weekender , u will av to let me know reg , hope to c you in blackpool this weekend , ifnot , k t f and keep on dancin reg , its wot keeps us young lol , take care pal , soon x
January 5th, 2012 at 7:45 pm
As soul fans we found ” searching for soul” a brillant read and once you get started you can’t put it down!!!!! Brought back so many happy memories, it made us laugh and cry. Thanks for sharing your life with us, soul man Reg!!! x x x
February 18th, 2012 at 2:28 pm
Oi Oi! My name is Lenny. I am 56, and met Reg about four years ago at a soul event The Barnet Summer Soulstice.
Just like Reg, I struggle with reading, and I am a useless speller. I can read, but cant seem to remember what I have just read. (just the bloke to do a book review, I can hear you say!!) I think it is because my head is so full of soul tunes and lyrics, there is no room in there for the written word.
I shared the passions of foot ball and soul music just like Reg in the 70′s,and i follwed WestHam from the age of 10, for 30 years, up until the tv and money men priced me out from going.
Unlike Reg I didn’t do the Northern Soul scene he wrote about in his book, because if I wasnt watching, i was playing football. I know I would of loved it though, from the way he described his experiences in the book.
I think I know the reasons why he had to write his book. He had to just try and share the thrills he gets from the sounds of soul music and wants everybody else to feel as good as he did. The thing is, I think, if you don’t feel it on the dance floor…you don’t feel it. But if you do, there is nothing like it. If you are like us ‘soulies’ as Reg calls us…it is infectious.
Reg is a buyer of records, I never was. I just collect them in my head. The dates, places, times and conversations and the list of records in his book…what a memory the man has!! I cant remember names or song titles like he can. But as soon as the DJ drops a tune on a deck and I have heard it before..my feet move and a grin appears on my face..and I remember the lyrics. Perhaps us Soulies have a sixth sence in that way..I don’t really know.
Reg writes in his book about the clubs and bands he went to see, for me the Cali was the best. All the top acts went there back in the day. He writes of his times at Caister and I never miss…they just get better and better.
Reg writes about his kids not being into the music…my three Love it and are all coming to Caister in May with their ol’ Man…How good is that?!
Reg writes about travelling around all the different soul events, just like i do…meeting lovely people everywhere you go, its just a joy. He writes about his dancing in the book, and for me it is just the best thing about soul music.
The music takes you to a special place, and you feel it, almost taste it, and wear it like a second skin. If you can share that place it takes you to, with a lady, then its bliss! Simple as.
In his book he wrote about losing is Mum and Dad before the book was finished. That was ashame and I felt for his grief.
All i can say is…the grief is the pay back, for loving someone so long. Unfortunatly the longer the loving, the harder the grief.
Reg you wrote ‘you get out of life what you put in’ So true my Friend.
I have got no favourite artist or no favourite tune, Soul gives me what I call ‘The Moment’ …It is the time and a place when you hear a tune, and you are consumed with it. If you are a Souly like me and Reg, you will know what I mean. Oh Yes…The MMMMMMMMMOMENT.
I spend the time i have left in this world, collecting as many Moments as i can, up and down the country most weekends. This is only the third book i have ever read. Bobby Moore’s and Trevor Brooking’s Autobiography being the other two. As i have said, i struggle with the reading thing. So for me recommending a book, is abit rich.
I will just say…Go buy the bloody book, it’s a read.
Ta Reg, for all the time and effort you put in to write this book.
See you out on the dance floor, some time, to share a moment.
Total respect Sir…Nuff said.
Happy Hammer Lenny.
PS thanks to my daughter who typed this out on the computor..one finger Lenny would still be here tapping away before the next Caister!!
Ho Lenny What can i say after reading your book reviue. Outher than “IM FEELING IT SOULMAN LENNY” YES MAN IM FEELING IT !!!!